Ethiopian Folktales

Bad Habitsክፉ አመሎች

Afarአፋር · 1 min readደቂቃ ንባብ

Narratorተራኪ: Unknown

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Once there was a beautiful Afar girl and all the men wanted to marry her. All of them used to chase her. But then one of them did marry her, but almost immediately he divorced her. Now the second man who wanted to marry her wanted to speak to her so he went to her, sitting beside a tree and started chatting her up.

And when he asked her, "Why did you divorce?" she said, "I don’t know. My husband said I’ve got three disgusting things about me and I’m not fit to be his wife."

So when the second admirer looked at her carefully he saw that she was sitting in a vulgar way, and he could see all the way up her. Trouble for an Afar woman.

So he said, "Well, I do understand what one of the disgusting things is."

And she looked up at him and said, "What do you mean? You s-o-b, f-----."

And he said, "Oh, so now I understand the second disgusting thing. So I don’t think I’ll wait and find out the third. I’ll be on my way."

He left her sitting under the tree and he went.

This shows that looks aren’t everything.

ክፉ አመሎች

ተራኪው የማይታወቅ

በአንድ ወቅት ወንዶች ሁሉ ሊያገቧት የሚመኟት ቆንጆ የአፋር ልጃገረድ ነበረች፡፡ ከወንዶቹም አንዱ አግብቷት ሲያደበቃ ብዙም ሳይቆይ ይፈታታል፡፡ ሁለተኛውም K=ያገባት የፈለገ ሰው ይህንኑ K=ጠይቃት ሄዶ ከአንድ ዛፍ ስር ተቀምጠው ይጫወቱ ጀመር፡፡

“ለምን ከመጀመሪያ ባልሽ ተፋታሽ?” ብሎ ሲጠይቃት “እኔ አላውቅም ባለቤቴ ሶስት የሚያስጠሉ ነገሮች ስላሉበሽ ባለቤቴ መሆን አትችይም፡፡ አለኝ፡፡” ብላ መለሰችለት፡፡

እናም ሁለተኛው አድናቂዋ በጥንቃቄ ሲመለከታት አቀማመጧ ቅጥ ያጣ በመሆኑ Hõ[} ገላዋን ውስጥ ድረስ አየው፡፡ ይህ ለአፋር ሴት ጥሩ አይደለም፡፡

ከዚያም እንዲህ አላት “እኔም ከሶስቱ አንዱን አስቀያሚ ነገር አውቄዋለው፡፡”

እሷም ቀና ብላ ተመልክታው “ምን ማለትህ ነው? አንተ የውሻ ልጅ” ብላ የብልግና ቃል ጨምራ ሰደበችው፡፡

እሱም “አሃ! አሁን ደግሞ ሁለተኛውን አስቀያሚ ነገር ስላወቅሁት ሶስተኛውን ለማወቅ መጠበቅ ያለብኝ አይመስለኝምና ተነስቼ ልሂድ” ብሎ ወሰነ፡፡

በዚህም አኳኋን የተቀመጠችበት ዛፍ ሥር ትቷት ሄደ፡፡

ይህ ተረት መልክ ብቻውን በቂ እንዳልሆነ ያሳያል፡፡

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Check your understandingግንዛቤዎን ይፈትሹ

  1. What was special about the Afar girl at the start of the story?

  2. What happened soon after the first man married her?

  3. How many disgusting things did her husband say she had?

  4. Where was the second admirer when he started chatting with her?

  5. What did the second man notice about the way she was sitting?

  6. What did the second man decide to do in the end?

For discussionለውይይት

  • The story ends by saying 'looks aren't everything.' What do you think this lesson means? Do you agree with it?
  • The second man learned about two of the girl's bad habits by watching and listening. What do you think the third disgusting thing might have been?
  • Why do you think the second man chose to leave instead of marrying her? Was it a wise choice?
  • How do you think the girl felt when the second man walked away? What advice would you give her?